BDSM - where to start?

Not all people are ready to admit to themselves that they are ready to try BDSM. However, if the partners decided to this experiment, it is necessary to think about how to start correctly.

Basic techniques

To BDSM experience brought only positive emotions, it is necessary to think everything through. In addition, it is recommended to start with the following techniques:

Role-playing
Role-playing will make it easier for partners to immerse themselves in the world of submission and dominance. This will avoid emotional trauma, some words or actions will be much easier to decide on.

Bonding
The partner who has been bound finds himself in the full power of the lover, which can be quite an exciting experience for the couple. At the initial stage of BDSM practices, it is advisable to buy a special set - it has Velcro, thanks to which there is no need to spend time studying the knots, and also the partner can be easily released.

Respectful treatment
Words will allow partners to establish the right relationship between dominant and subordinate. It will be enough to add words like "sir", "master", "mistress", "sir" to their speech.

Establishing permissions and prohibitions
To emphasize the position of the submissive, you can ask permission from your partner before doing something during sexual intercourse. You can also introduce some prohibitions that only the lover can lift.

Punishment
Once the partners have agreed on a number of rules regarding the behavior of both, it is possible to introduce some punishments. For example, the partner forbade the girl to touch herself without his permission. If the ban was violated, he has the right to punish the beloved at his own discretion.

BDSM in ordinary life
As soon as the partners feel confident enough in the bedroom, the dynamics of the relationship between the dominant and the submissive can continue to support in ordinary life. The main thing is to remember to take breaks, as new experiences can cause serious psychological trauma.

Flogging
The practice of flogging should start from the buttocks area. The fact is that this part of the body is difficult enough to seriously damage, in addition, many men are seduced and aroused by female buttocks. At the initial stage of flogging should be carried out only with the palms of the hands, as well as to clarify from the beloved, what force will be optimal.

Dragging for curls
Many people know that the head is a rather sensitive area. For this reason, BDSM practices can be started by utilizing this sensitivity.

Experimenting with the use of hot wax and ice
For this purpose, massage candles should be used, as well as special toys from the sex shop. This will expand the list of sensations that will be available to the partners.

Bites
This method can be called the best in order to get a lot of thrills without much effort. To find out the pain threshold of the partner, you should start biting him in different places: on the nipples, ribs, hands.

Before you start BDSM practices, both partners should carefully study the theory relating to this issue. Otherwise, you can cause your loved one not only physical, but also psychological harm.